Coach, my H is the type that won't do something because I TOLD him to.
He has told me he DOESN'T WANT me and isn't in love with me anymore. By telling him to leave, he will do just that. My kids are what is holding me back. I can't do this to them with the holidays here. I live 2000 miles away from my family.
Hey sweetie, The most important thing is to be a good role model for your children. Be the best YOU you can be. Stick to your CORE VALUES and shine.
The key is to set enforceable boundaries (that you control) with natural consequence to him. Give him choices. Go read the boundaries thread.
"What is best for the kids is best for me."
The best thing for the kids is having two responsible parents that respect each other. Is this what you have?
Respect yourself to set healthy boundaries for YOU. This will gain respect from H (Even if he gets really angry )
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
