oh cemar,

I really do feel for you, trust me I do.

but you are generalizing again.

it's not just a problem men face...

there are plenty of attractive viable women out here who are for what ever reason "stuck" with a ld h.

now I've also gotten the ole love language advice...

know what it does for me?

makes me bitter...

cause I know that though h also understands the "love language" concept..he will always have a knack for waiting til the bank is almost empty before bothering to make a deposit...eventually the bank may just close out his account...but then again I could just accept that in time the passion dies from all r's anyway..cut my losses and try to find something to keep me going. oh yeah and hope that I never meet someone who distracts me from the lonliness of a vertually ssm.

LL