Thanks Puppy! Will have to make sure he is by himself. But the card from the kids he will have already because D13 will be with him on Sat. So I bought something for her to give him from her and my S. Still show up?
Sure.
a) It's "The Right Thing to Do"; and
b) Opportunity to show your mysterious side.
c) it's not "pursuing" if you don't stay.
Think of it like that really COOL, TOTALLY FAMOUS guest that used to come out on Carson or Leno and -- rather than move from the chair to the couch when the next guest would come out -- had to leave early. Remember those? Johnny would say "Look, I know you have some place you have to be, so we really appreciate you stopping by . . . "