SOOOOOOOO, apparently she sent him 3 messages on facebook reaching out to him.. and called me because she is going nuts that he told her he'd leave me and the kids for her and hasn't done so.. and that he had called her telling her he loved her...when i tried to get more info from her she hung up on me..
I am so sorry. I know this is all crazy. I know it hurts. HUGS
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I just confronted him on this and he said she is crazy and said that she sent him emails mad that i was on his FB page as a friend and listed as his wife (is she nuts? I AM HIS WIFE!).. and that she was tired of his games and that she quit.. and he just ignored them because he can't be bothered. he said he hasn't called her either.. (I don't know what to believe.)
I know it is confusing. Sorry you are going through this.
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I am so done.. I am 32 years old.. not in HIGH SCHOOL!!! He said that he is done with both of us and that he's not with me and not with her.. is he smoking something? this isn't high school.. we aren't boyfriend/girlfriend. we are married.. with houses, cars, kids and bills!
It sounds like you are frustrated. We understand.
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I just legal zoomed divorce papers.. I can't do this anymore.. i need this to set a timeline for myself. I feel like he is giving me no other option... I want to be happy and this isn't making me happy anymore..
Sounds like a good idea.
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can anyone give me some words of wisdom here? i'm losing it right now and I refuse to cry anymore over this jerk.. I want to save my tears for tears of happiness!
I am sorry about the tears. It is hard when things don't go the way we would like.
Words of wisdom: Take your focus off of M,R and H. Focus on areas of your life that make you happy. I did the hard work to stay focused on the present, myself, and the well being of my kids. I found happy by focusing on HAPPY. I found happy by focusing on things I enjoy and not on things that were not making me happy. My happiness comes from within. I pass out what I want to receive.
I wish you well during this difficult time of you life. Just remember that everything will be OK no matter what H chooses. You are special and deserve happiness. Take responsibility for your own happiness and let go of H to find his.
HUGS
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
