Journal these conversations, take screen shots of FB and copy the phone records.
Let him know you are done. Go talk to a lawyer, learn your options. Tell him - "I won't share you with another woman. If you contact her again in anyway, I will pack your bags and put them out them in the garage. I want complete transparency, full access to your phone, e-mail and FB account. If you won't agree then you can I expect you to leave now."
You are going to be strong, confident and in control of yourself. The OW is going to self-destruct. You only control yourself and how you will let others treat you. You are not a victim you have choices in how you deal with it. You can handle it.
Cheers
Coach, my H is the type that won't do something because I TOLD him to.
He has told me he DOESN'T WANT me and isn't in love with me anymore. By telling him to leave, he will do just that. My kids are what is holding me back. I can't do this to them with the holidays here. I live 2000 miles away from my family.
M: 32 H: 34 S:5 D: 3 D: 1 Together 11 years Married 7 Bomb: PA/EA 8/13/09 (for 1 year on and off) ILYBINILWY: 08/09
"The end of suffering happens with the end of wanting." -Laura Munson
