I need help in the biggest way. I feel so helpless

[timehealsall]

Journal these conversations, take screen shots of FB and copy the phone records.

Let him know you are done. Go talk to a lawyer, learn your options. Tell him - "I won't share you with another woman. If you contact her again in anyway, I will pack your bags and put them out them in the garage. I want complete transparency, full access to your phone, e-mail and FB account. If you won't agree then I expect you to leave now."

You are going to be strong, confident and in control of yourself. The OW is going to self-destruct. You only control yourself and how you will let others treat you. You are not a victim you have choices in how you deal with it. You can handle it.

Coach is a wise man. Read his words again.

Technically, I have full access to everything. That's why he calls me matlock..

I am just done with all of this. I really am. She is already self destructing by the sounds of it. she is getting nasty and all her recent messages are calling him a liar and telling him he was the biggest mistake of her life and that she is done with him.

We shall see what happens. he should be home shortly with the kiddies. I am not even going to talk to him about this.. let him rot and think whatever he wants. I'll talk to him when I decide to. He's been enjoying this whole having 2 woman falling at his feet for too long.

I've been too vulnerable and too patient. he's used me as a doormat. And as I type this, I'm not crying or shaking.. I'm actually calm and am OK. I'm sure this is just an upswing on the rollercoaster ride, but I just have to believe that I WILL be okay.

Thank you all once again. Your words mean more than you will every know.

xoxo