Well in that case! I saw that you said that you had put up a profile on one of the dating sites, thats a start! I think that alot of the DBing principles apply, look great, smell great, have a positive attitude, take care of yourself. Even if you arent ready to date, and I agree, you might not be, just looking good and feeling good will help you.
But keep in mind, if you go to a movie with someone, or dinner, or whatever, you arent bound to some kind of huge commitment. Your just meeting and having a nice time, you should allow yourself that much at least!
Im actually not sorry that my H lost it. Not anymore. After he left, I sort of realized, after I finished being sad (that was over pretty quickly), that hes kind of a creep! And I can do soooo much better!
And tostada, I think that EVERYONE needs fleece sheets!
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...