hillockjohn,

Don't know your situation but I detect more than a hint of cynicism in your post. I would guess that you are hurting.

I read in you profile that
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Now with the greatest lady, except she has no interest in sex. Which means she has no interest in me.



I'd be willing to guess that your detuctive reasoning is faulty. Just because she is not interested is sex right now does not mean that she is not interested in you. She wasn't always that way, was she? There are many factors that influence desire. Health, medications, stress, etc.

Today's women have more responsibilities than ever. The world and media send us messages everyday that tell us it is not enough to just be a wife anymore. We must have careers, husbands, kids, a dazzling social life, and to top it off, we must look like we just stepped off the pages of Playboy. For most of us, it's just unrealistic. If we do manage to pull it off, we're exhausted at the end of the day. Too tired to enjoy any of what we have been given.

That is why we would like help with diapers and housework. A little understanding and compassion for all we do would be appreciated.

Please don't automatically assume that no sex=no interest. I'm willing to bet that that is not the case.

Dig a little deeper...