Journal these conversations, take screen shots of FB and copy the phone records.
Let him know you are done. Go talk to a lawyer, learn your options. Tell him - "I won't share you with another woman. If you contact her again in anyway, I will pack your bags and put them out them in the garage. I want complete transparency, full access to your phone, e-mail and FB account. If you won't agree then I expect you to leave now."
You are going to be strong, confident and in control of yourself. The OW is going to self-destruct. You only control yourself and how you will let others treat you. You are not a victim you have choices in how you deal with it. You can handle it.
Coach is a wise man. Read his words again.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
