His buddy's are going out and he emailed me to ask if I had any plans on Saturday night and wants to go.
This is where it gets tough???? Not in the least..
"Oh, thanks for reminding me. I forgot to tell you that a couple of my girlfriends wanted me to go see the Chippendales on Saturday night. This works out great. So, for sure, go ahead and go out with the boys. Take care. Ta ta."
You fight fire with fire with men. If he goes out, then YOU go out. Just make sure you go out so that there is the possibility to mingle with the opposite sex. Getting mad at him or being his mommy doesn't work. Letting him know that you aren't sitting home moping, but actually sounding like you would RATHER do something else does work. Then let HIM make the next contact. If he calls while you are out, do NOT answer and do not call him back until the next morning...
You need to wake up. When your man wants to go out on a Saturday night without you, then that is a big RED FLAG. He is using his friends for his cover. Don't be a fool and fall for this. You can't stop him from going and shouldn't even let him think you want to stop him, but you had better do the same thing and let him be aware that you too are out and about among the opposite sex on a Saturday night. WITHOUT HIM and enjoying it. With YOUR girlfriends as YOUR excuse.
