So things are going really well...seemingly. I still don't feel like anything is actually RESOLVED though. I keep feeling the need to talk about everything that happened, how we got to that place, and how to keep from going there again.

It still pains me to know that the only reason things are going so well is because OW took herself out of the equation...against H's wishes. He still contends that they were only friends. That may be true as far as what transpired between them, but his FEELINGS were obviously way more intense. It was written all over his face, and in the words he used (she's "the ONE bright spot in his life"?!?), and in the number of hours spent online and on the phone.

So where do I go from here? How long do I wait for him to bring it up?


2009 info:
Me: 35
H: 37
M: 16/T: 18
D: 15
EA: 5-11-09 to 8-09

My sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1832210#Post1832210