Want I want done to me is lots of intimacy, sex, touch, etc.., ANYTHING that has to do with touching. The problem is that is the OPPOSITE of what my wife wants. So I CAN NOT do to her body what I want done to mine. In fact, I have to learn to do things for my wife, that I COULD REALLY CARE LESS ABOUT. Literally, in my situation, I must learn to do all the things that make me uncomfortable, and my wife must learn to be my lover again, which if you are a ND person, must be EXTREMELY hard to do.
