Once my X moved out he only came in the house we owned with the real estate agent. At one point he called me and said because his name was on the deed he was entitled to a key. NOPE!!! I told him he was not and it wasn't up for discussion. Now that I have my own house, he has not been inside yet. Not sure if he ever will. There is no way I would trust him to be in my house when I wasn't there, he would invade my privacy to try to find someting he could use against me. When we were still living together (and he was spending every evening until around midnight at OW's house) he put spyware on my computer. That's how he discovered this site and read what I wrote here. Yeah, he's not coming in my new place!!!
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn
