H wants a collaborative divorce and he will give me full disclosure on Monday of what is going on with OW with the counselor.

I really don't see how to DB while going through divorce. I'm so disgusted of his A. I know I'm not the only one, but this is his second time! I don't know whether to go ahead with the D, or work on it because I know he'll be in my life forever because of the kids.

Now, my SIL thinks it's ok that he has been with OW since he left the house. That we are not "married" once he left. What? So I guess it's okay for me to date now?

All the crap the OW's H told me is just awful. I want to forget it. And the photos. frown

This sucks.


M40, H39
M17 T20
D13, S12
H moved out 05/09
D filed 1/10