BobbiJo- thank you for that. I am going to talk to him tonight F2F. I think I am going to have him answer the questions Coach put up for me. He has to Stay Sat and Sun anyway because I work 7P-7A both nights so really, tonight is the only difference in the weekend plan anyway.
If he is not willing to work on the R/M I will tell him he needs to leave. I want him home, but not if we are just roommates raising children. I deserve a husband and a relationship. I deserve more than what he has offered in our brief conversation this AM.
Yes, yes, yes!! (Imagine I am giving a standing O!)
Ask him those questions. If they aren't ready for the tough questions then they aren't ready to come home. I think that while they are still out of the house, we have much more power/leverage to demand the respect and relationship we deserve. Much harder to enforce boundaries/guidelines if they are already back in our homes...
