Well, Going to make appt. with lawyer today and go in to see what my rights are. Not going to file any papers, I will let her do that. I really can't afford place on my own. Spent alot of time going over numbers. Just would not work. I am ok with selling house. I will just stay with brothers house for now. I have to look at this as a bump in road, and realize she could do a complete 180 herself and she would realize what she is missing. I just have to pick myself up, brush myself off and keep going forward and really just focus on me and D17. And not chase and persue W anymore. I am putting way to much pressure on her. I have alot in life to be happy about. I still have my family that support and love me, where she will only have herself. She has no family except her brother who will be angry with her for awhile for doing what she is doing and possibly her own daughter.
The house isn't sold yet, you are talking about things that haven't even happened yet and probably won't happen for quite some time. You don't need to worry about going to your brother's house, ....YOU GO HOME! Is english a 2nd language for you?