Well, Going to make appt. with lawyer today and go in to see what my rights are. Not going to file any papers, I will let her do that. I really can't afford place on my own. Spent alot of time going over numbers. Just would not work. I am ok with selling house. I will just stay with brothers house for now. I have to look at this as a bump in road, and realize she could do a complete 180 herself and she would realize what she is missing. I just have to pick myself up, brush myself off and keep going forward and really just focus on me and D17. And not chase and persue W anymore. I am putting way to much pressure on her. I have alot in life to be happy about. I still have my family that support and love me, where she will only have herself. She has no family except her brother who will be angry with her for awhile for doing what she is doing and possibly her own daughter.
No, don't do that. Let her do all the work. You don't have to see a lawyer about your rights. You have rights, you don't need them explained to you. Stop over thinking this, just move back in.
You're making excuses because you're scared and you want someone to identify with your position and say it's ok. A lawyer will tell you to stay where you are living outside the home, and file for separation and then divorce and then have you pay them money, a retainer and get the process going. They aren't your marriage counsellor, they have bills and need to pay them just like you do and they will serve their best interests, not yours.
