BobbiJo- thank you for that. I am going to talk to him tonight F2F. I think I am going to have him answer the questions Coach put up for me. He has to Stay Sat and Sun anyway because I work 7P-7A both nights so really, tonight is the only difference in the weekend plan anyway.

If he is not willing to work on the R/M I will tell him he needs to leave. I want him home, but not if we are just roommates raising children. I deserve a husband and a relationship. I deserve more than what he has offered in our brief conversation this AM.


Me: 33 / H: 36
M: 10y / T: 14y
3 kids
BD: 2/22/14
Live in separation 3/8/14
H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14
H moved out 4/25/14
2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month