. . . oh, and a 6.2. That was the Russian judge, so I wouldn't worry about it.
LMAO!!!! That gets a 10 for the much needed laugh of my day and that's from the super cute judge who has been helped by PDT to rediscover her sexy, self-confident, more-than-deserving, empowered female prowess.
Me-34 XH-33 No Kids We were M-12Y T-15Y 5/09 Same house-separate bedrooms 01/10 I filed for D / H moved out 09/16/10 Divorced
Last night H got home from work and I went to kitchen to start dinner. I guess H has decided to give me the silent treatment now. H was acting with this nervous energy like he was in this super busy important rush, getting ready to leave for the gym almost immediately when he walked in the door. I said a friendly Hi to him and got nothing. So I just put an even bigger smile on my face and kept about my business until he scurried out the door.
Little later I found some dirty cleaning rags in the laundry basket in the closet. Strands of OW's hair strewn throughout them. All day yesterday I fought a mental battle in my head of if I had wrongly misjudged the situation on Tuesday night. I really need to stop doing that, as my instincts are continually being proved right.
Just some other observations - I find it funny that 1) OW doesn't have cleaning supplies or own a vacuum cleaner? 2) H is having to help her or surprise her with cleaning? 3) By the looks of the rags, the place was filthy.
H complained that I wasn't consistent with cleaning and now I have been for 7 months straight. Funny if OW turns out to have cleaning problem I had, or is maybe even worse than I was, lol. Who knows? It could also be that maybe she just moved or they are getting a place together. Doesn't really matter much, but just thoughts streaming through my head.
I found this on another post earlier and I really related it to it right now.
Originally Posted By: Ready2Change
We all know how that feels. That is why we are here supporting you now. You have a choice to continue doing what IS NOT WORKING, or change and do THE RIGHT THING that feels uncomfortable. Become the new sexy YOU. Put yourself out there and enjoy attention from Men. Keep your boundaries. If it feels uncomfortable, YOU ARE DOING THE RIGHT THING.
I have been feeling the most uncomfortable I have ever felt in my entire life. But I also feel extremely proud and empowered when I look in the mirror and what is reflected back now is a woman who is loving herself, standing up for herself, respecting herself, and taking care of herself.
Me-34 XH-33 No Kids We were M-12Y T-15Y 5/09 Same house-separate bedrooms 01/10 I filed for D / H moved out 09/16/10 Divorced
I have been feeling the most uncomfortable I have ever felt in my entire life.
Then you are doing the right thing.
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But I also feel extremely proud and empowered when I look in the mirror and what is reflected back now is a woman who is loving herself, standing up for herself, respecting herself, and taking care of herself.
Then you are doing the right thing!
HUGS
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
Last night H got home from work and I went to kitchen to start dinner. I guess H has decided to give me the silent treatment now. H was acting with this nervous energy like he was in this super busy important rush, getting ready to leave for the gym almost immediately when he walked in the door. I said a friendly Hi to him and got nothing. So I just put an even bigger smile on my face and kept about my business until he scurried out the door.
LMFAO. 20 bucks says that wussy little cleaning boy doesn't have the 'nad to pull this off more than 36 hours.
Puppy - So I couldn't wait to get on here and post - I hope you had some takers for your wager cause you just made a lotta money if you did....LMAO!!!
H got home from work. I went to kitchen to put away dishes and fold some laundry. H came in to get a sandwich he was grilling, didn't say anything but his vibe seemed like he would've chatted with me like usual. I didn't say anything, just kept busy.
As I was getting done, about to leave kitchen to go to my room - H was in his getting ready to leave mode and comes in towards kitchen with a shirt on and says "This shirt is too small on me isn't it?" I had to hold back the laughter inside of me because all I could think of at that moment was Puppy's last post. I had a few friendly comments/critiques with him about the shirt. Then my phone was ringing mid-conversation. Had to leave and take my call in my room. Friend calling me to come meet her for drinks. Quick change and out the door I went before H.
Me-34 XH-33 No Kids We were M-12Y T-15Y 5/09 Same house-separate bedrooms 01/10 I filed for D / H moved out 09/16/10 Divorced
"Yeah, you probably should use it as a cleaning rag."
Then just keep on walking.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Puppy - So I couldn't wait to get on here and post - I hope you had some takers for your wager cause you just made a lotta money if you did....LMAO!!!
H got home from work. I went to kitchen to put away dishes and fold some laundry. H came in to get a sandwich he was grilling, didn't say anything but his vibe seemed like he would've chatted with me like usual. I didn't say anything, just kept busy.
As I was getting done, about to leave kitchen to go to my room - H was in his getting ready to leave mode and comes in towards kitchen with a shirt on and says "This shirt is too small on me isn't it?" I had to hold back the laughter inside of me because all I could think of at that moment was Puppy's last post. I had a few friendly comments/critiques with him about the shirt. Then my phone was ringing mid-conversation. Had to leave and take my call in my room. Friend calling me to come meet her for drinks. Quick change and out the door I went before H.
Please, don't try this at home. After all, I am a trained professional.
