FWIW I let my H come home too soon. I let him come when he decided he wanted to come home. I told him the things I wanted from him and he 'couldn't promise' me he'd do any of them...
Well I let him move in anyway. He was there for the kids but not for me, it was obvious. And too hard to be that close together, but not be...together. For me anyway.
And he moved back out 4 months later. Now we have been separated 11 months and he is amazed that I am such a strong, confident person without him...
I hope you two get back together but I would do it on YOUR time/comfort level, not his.
