Today I am focusing on being the best man I can be. Letting go of the past and detaching from the people and events that take advantage of me.

XW is history. Yeah, she'll be in my life in small doses but like any poison, if you take it in small doses you can build up a tolerance for it.

But that doesn't really matter. What does matter is my thoughts. Because thoughts become your reality.

For too long I have thought that I was bad, didn't deserve good things, wasn't lovable. And look at my reality.

The truth is that I am lovable. Even XW loved me, she just didn't love herself. The same can be said for me.

I used to have this posted on my wall years ago:

"Think about what you really want"
"Expect Miracles"

I'm going to print it out and post it on my wall again.


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