I am not sure that I see much good to be gained by me going. If I take a date, it could very well backfire when W sees it, or it could make her jealous. But it may not as I am not up to the prestige she seems to love. The lady I would take would be more beautiful than her and that would be the only thing I would have going for me.
However, if I go without a date, and I see W with OM, I think that would be a bit demoralizing to me.
And if I go with a date, it may further justify to W that she is in the clear to continue pursuing OM and not have a concious about it.
And then there is the Droid phone that I really want to get on Friday. It is much more awesome than my blackberry.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...