Wow, you sure do have a busy school schedule this year! Excellent news that S is feeling better. Too bad you aren't doing as well. Good luck with the dr today!
Yeah, I think that's a good idea...just take it a day a time time. I know you kind of have this set timeline in mind, but just be open to being sonewhat flexible depending on how things progress. But I completely understand about the boundary you want to make for 2010. 2009 completely sucked, and I don't want to go thru another year like this. January 1st, 2010 will be a new year and I want it to be that way - NEW! I was thinking of proposing something like u with my H (ie. plan something for us as we "start over in this new year". New Year's Eve was the day I found the emails with OW last year, so needless to say, last year's was the worst ever, and i am ready for a change). But it sounds like you should have a feel for where he is at over the next month, depending on how he responds to these different events. The anniversary will be particularly interesting. It's just really great that he's showing love and care for you during this time when you are sick. OW seems to be losing, so let's hope that trend continues! I know there are still a lot of questions about what's the deal with OW, but like you said, you just have to keep your mouth shut for now, and let him continue to draw to you, and if he doesn't cut it off himself, (and you feel he truely is committed to you), then you make your ultimatum as planned. Just keep being positive and let the positive changes continue!
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
