I'm really not judging him as the wrong one, quite the contrary. I want input from someone like you that will tell me frankly YOU ARE WRONG. I'm looking for validation in either direction, just validation. I know that sex is important in any relationship and I have read the posts from miserable members that aren't having it...BUT WE ARE HAVING IT and he still complains. I just don't think sex is everything nor is penis size, if I thought it was I wouldn't be marrying him. I say he's a good partner and I concentrate his other attributes because sex is and should be 10% of you married life. You both are doing and engaged in a lot of other activities and project 90% of the time. If I leave him and marry someone else for the sex then what do we talk about, what do we share, what interests do we participate in TOGETHER...THE OTHER 90% of the time. Sex is soooo important because people make it sooo important. What happens when you two are old and physically cant perform or when the other is going through an illness and they can't have sex? Does anyone care about how you co-exist throught those times?
