I have to look at this as a bump in road, and realize she could do a complete 180 herself and she would realize what she is missing.
going to be critically honest with you. this wasnt a bump in the road it was a brick wall that you ran into as fast as you could. you were suppose to leap and bound over the building superman.
Originally Posted By: acsnow
I did everything I was not suppose to do.
Key word here is 'DID' past tense form of do and does. Now let us refocus: Who cares if she will not reconsider your marriage. Who cares if she threathens to 'put the house up for sale.' Woof. Woof. are you a mailman, afraid of barking dogs? Wait No,
"LOOK, UP IN THE SKY, ITS A BIRD, ITS A PLANE . . . IT'S, ITS SUPERMAN! Yes, it's Superman - strange visitor from another planet who came to Earth with powers and abilities far beyond those of mortal men. Superman - who can change the course of mighty rivers, bend steel with his bare hands, and who, disguised as ASCNOW can live in his own freaking home and enjoy the things he has worked so freaking hard for and spend the last year before his little girl suddenly grows up and moves away to college with her enjoying that last few months of HER childhood.
You dont believe for a minute that you are "going to disrupt D17 life her final year of school" by moving back home? You got to be kidding me. Who is going to do the disrupting your 'overly entitled' wife or you? woof woof. stop being afraid of barking dogs. if you have ever looked closely most of have a chain around their neck and arent all that scary once you realize that.
As i see it you have 2 choices here with less than 8 hours to go in your work week. Grab your pillow and your vinyls and the case of raemen noodles you probably been living on and walk right in YOUR front door and move back home. And if she thorws a $hit fit you say, "I had an epiphany. I am going to enjoy MY bed and MY couch and MY color TV. And I am going to sit on the porch with a shot gun if D17'd date doesnt get her home by 11. And if you want to divorce and want to sell the house so be it. I AM NOT GOING DOWN THAT EASY."