Thanks SD. I am not over excited right now. I am more scared now than I was a week ago alone. I am not too comfortable with the one month separation. It took him 2 years to leave and 1 month to come back??

I also want to apologize to those still going through this. Here I am getting my husband back in the house and all I can think is... why? I probably seem ungrateful.

I will continue to check in here though. You all are amazing people who help out complete strangers.

If anyone has anything else they can add, please do!! I don't really know where to go from here. Do I continue on the DRing route? Do I start fixing the complaints of the marriage even if they go against DR? He isn't back 'in love' with me so I am not sure how to act or what to do. It seems so complicated!


Me: 33 / H: 36
M: 10y / T: 14y
3 kids
BD: 2/22/14
Live in separation 3/8/14
H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14
H moved out 4/25/14
2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month