Even if he decides he wants things to be done RIGHT NOW!, you know it isn't going to happen that way in real life. Get your focus back to taking care of you... you'll be ready to deal with whatever comes!
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Its okay to wallow from time to time. We're human. I had one of those days yesterday. Take some time for YOU today. Get a good nights sleep and wake up on the RIGHT side of the bed tomorrow. Go for a walk, head to the mall, meet someone for coffee. Get your mind off things for a while. I did that today and hey, its already 2:30 in the afternoon. Half the day is gone, and I haven't thought much about H at all! I'm not going to lie and say I didn't think about him, but very minimal compared to the average day. I'm in your shoes, it may be a little comforting to know someone else out there feels the same way you do right now...keep your chin up.
M: 31 H: 29 Married: 6 yrs Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old
Separated: Sept. '09 Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09 Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10 Threatening to leave again: July,14
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
