I'm trying to circle back, and figure out where you are with this, which was wisely prescribed by Oldtimer:
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Finally, you've both had As. If you are going to move forward, full transparency on BOTH your parts is called for. Share all email accounts, all passwords, all cell phone records. Account for all of your time. BOTH of you. Keep computer time PUBLIC. Complete transparency.
Did you ever get agreement on that from your husband? It does seem to me that he's telling you where he's going, and who he's going to be with, and you're going to have to trust him, so long as the other transparency pieces are in place.
I would still verify, tho, if it were me, either thru GPS or a drive-by to make sure he is where he says he is. I would not tell him I'm doing this.
