And, according to what your W has said most of what she dislikes about you is your neediness, your inability to make decisions and act like a strong man.
So, do you think being her soft spot to land when it suits her and being nothing to you when it suits her (and she is with OM) is showing her that you *are* strong and you can make decisions?
We've gotta show others that we are strong enough and respect ourselves enough to let go of those who don't respect or value us.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.