Well,it's happened. His buddy's are going out and he emailed me to ask if I had any plans on Saturday night and wants to go.

This is when it gets tough. These are guys who are not people of substance. I cannot tell him that I forbid him to go. I am not his mother or the police. I feel, though, like I want to say something to him about my feelings but I also don't want him to think I'm as threatened as I am. This mistrust thing has been a big issue in our M.

Any guidence would be helpful. I think this may be a good post to help me segway over to the Infidelity board. I sooo don't want to admit that's where I need to be..but it's reality and that's where I am.

Peace...gina B

M 43 H 34
D 4
H asked for D on 6/21/09:1st D mediation 7/27;D says he wants to try 8/18;
*I will stumble, I will fall down but I will not be moved.(N.Grant)