What I think is that by me backing off and setting boundaries, it was driving a wedge further between us. She was actually becoming more hostile and I wasn't creating a comfort zone to draw her back into. If a relationship is going to have a starting point, it can't be to further drive it apart.
One thing that has not felt comfortable is me trying to play hardball with W as that is not my natural personality. As a result, I don't do it very well and it backfires more than helps.
As far as the margarita ball goes, I have no real interest in going. It would only be a tactic to draw interest from W and raise her curiousity.
Goodfight,
Yes, Rejoice Ministries says to not date and that it could backfire on you and that is a concern of mine. God would not lead me into dating someone else. I also wouldn't be doing it to start a R with someone else.
A&K,
Insight appreciated. No offense taken.
It's raining here. Traffic was a nightmare this morning.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
