I would stop messing with all this nonsense of "working on yourself". There is NOTHING wrong with you NOW.
I don't usually post on this thread but Gucci, as much as I do believe their is a "method to your madness," you are telling an admitted alcoholic and clearly unstable guy (Kevin, with all due respect a lot of us fit that bill here) that there is nothing wrong with him. It is sweet and romantic but obviously the one thing Kevin needs more than anything is to be able to be alone and deal with his compulsions and learn to focus his attention where he wants it. Dating, getting some attention is great, but if all the focus shifts on to a new hottie, he's doomed to end up right back here in a matter of time. Nothing shows me that he's prepared to handle a R with a new woman and maintain perspective.
That's my opinion. You give very aggressive advice which is often spot on but it would be cool if you were mindful of the fact that you don't know each individual and his/her capacities.
