"Well, I don't want you knowing what I am doing, and using it against me."
"w, you can't control what I know or don't know. Then you start thinking for me, you think I am going to use something against you. If you want to know what I am thinking ask. Now back to the issue.......... "
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"d8 wanted to know if she could make it a surprise for you.."
"Actually what I heard D8 say is.................. Which gets me back to why I want to address................"
Call her everytime she mind-reads (you think/feel/believe), deflects off the issue and lies. Otherwise you get upset and stew over it. It's your choice how she treats you.
Simple rule for relationships: Someone does something that bothers you. It is your responsibility to bring it up.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
