I think the date or date other men stemmed from a suggestion I gave K a while ago to date her husband...like BBJ describes. She said it was not possible so....I went on to say (jokingly)that in France everyone has a mistress or lover. So perhaps that is the secret to happiness....take what you can from your husband and go get what is missing elsewhere. OK, before anybody berates me, I was joking when I said this...Incidentally K is also joking when she metions other men above.
