Thanks Coach.

He would be here all weekend anyway because I have to work Saturday and Sunday nights. The only thing different about him wanting to come home is that he would be here tonight too.

I will get out my journal and write down your questions.

I am fine with him being in the spare room because the kids are still in our bed. This will give me more time apart from him.

He said "I don't know if I was going through a mid life thing or what. I am not even thinking about papers or anything and I don't plan on thinking that again." But he was SO unhappy and didn't love me. Maybe he found out my sister wasn't going to go for him! LOL! (Ok, not so lol, but still)


Me: 33 / H: 36
M: 10y / T: 14y
3 kids
BD: 2/22/14
Live in separation 3/8/14
H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14
H moved out 4/25/14
2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month