Tell him you need some time and space to think about it. You are not in a rush to make a decision.
Then think about how you really want you marriage to be.
What needs to improve? Stop?
What issues do you need addressed about your H?
How will you measure the change?
What happens if things don't change?
What does your husband want from you?
This is a great opportunity to heal, make changes and move forward together. Be wise. You can handle it.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
