Guess I'll save this one for my IC appt next week. I really think it stems from the fact that he doesn't think he did anything wrong - that he was just being a good friend. And I don't care what he says ("I don't have the need to save anybody") - it made him feel good - feel needed. And it allowed him to play the victim with me. Which is what she's really good at. Standing back and judging others and playing the victim.
It's so confusing because we've been getting along well. When he picked me up from the airport he didn't hide his jealousy over me traveling with two guys. He brought the diet soda for me which was very thoughtful.
Like I said the real proof I guess will be when we finally get the treadmill back and then supposedly there should be no reason for any contact. Unless of course he gets called as a witness when this divorce finally goes to court.