#67 Cant find my "pieces"

[mishka422]

I hope you find a solution to the way you are feeling K. It seems like you feel alone in the R, but by your own description you have been that for years now.

Are you looking for a H and lover or a helpmate? There is a difference. I think you might mean you feel it's not fair that you are alone and lonely, doing everything, while he does next to nothing. Besides losing one of the jobs, what more could he do that would help you feel that he is contributing? Would that make you feel more loved or would that just alleviate some of the stress?

Forgive me, but I have a VERY short memory and I can't recall if you said you tell him you love him. Do you? Does he reciprocate ever? A lot of men do not initate that. They don't say they love you because of fear that you won't reciprocate. How are you handling that?

Believe me, I hear the pain and disappointment in your post. You need to do what feels right to you. I can only say that it would be a shame to give up a chance to regain the love of your life because of mundane daily stuff.

I don't know if I'm saying that in a way that makes sense. I'm just rooting so hard for you to get your M back!!!