Now that I have the temp order, I am putting together my plans and pictures of the MR, and will be contacting current L, and asking where we go from here.
If I don't like what he is telling me, then I'll look for new L.
In some respects, I am bound by the laws here in MA, so there's not much you can do about that. From what I understand, MA is the top state as far as rewarding child support now, and Alimony is so ambiguous, it will be up to the judge to decide, but there are case precedents, so it's getting less flexible.
We'll see.
I have heard from several people mockingly, that the outcome of D in this state is to ensure that neither party is happy....
IWITW,
The part about your sitch that makes me confused is a judge who would order a temporary support scheme that either (a) you cannot afford or (b) will drive you into bankruptcy. I am curious as to whether your L made this point to the Court.
I understand the law in MA may not be favorable to you, but I find it hard to believe the judge would order you to pay what you cannot afford.
