Puppy, yes infidelity would make a difference. I had my suspicions about W, but nothing confirmed.
Just let what happens happen GF, and just my .02, but I'd read MWD's articles and advice above anyone on these forums. We're all just trying to put her relationship stuff into practice. I've never found anyone better.
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
Do I wait for H to make the move next time if we are ever alone again? Do I take a card to him, just a plain card Puppy, Jon, and Kevin.
He is the one that wanted the mac and cheese. H was suppose to pick it up when dropping D13 off but he was too early so I offered to take it to his place. Never did I expect anything to happen but he asked "What do I owe you?" So I told him. LOL
What do you think Puppy on the card issue and asking if I could come to his apartment on Sunday night? Need some help here, Sunday is coming fast. I know he is going to dinner with his father and step-mother but don't think he is doing anything after that, or do I wait to see what happens when he takes D13 on Sat.?
She wants to finally express her feelings to him after 1yr. of how she feels about the separation. She has told me many times how she feels but she was always afraid to tell H.
I think you should show up, with a card from the kids, and maybe a funny "Shoebox" type card from yourself -- NOTHING MUSHY in it, just sign your name.
I'd stay about 15-20 minutes, and then have "someplace to go," looking and smelling GREAT.
Thanks Puppy! Will have to make sure he is by himself. But the card from the kids he will have already because D13 will be with him on Sat. So I bought something for her to give him from her and my S. Still show up?
I just want you to know that you are doing a good job of getting me back in line with standing. You are being quite tough to me and not letting up. It is getting through to me.
I guess we all need someone else to help get us back on track when feel like throwing in the towel at times.
I appreciate it.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
I had actually stopped going to the rejoice ministries website because I became so frusturated. But I have started going back to it again and reading the daily Charlyne Cares Devos again.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
If it wasn't for you I would have never stood this long for my marriage. Sign up for the emails and this way you will automatically get the Charlyne Cares Devos. They even sent me a free CD! It was really good.
This is what God wants, for us to come to him to change and then be there for marriage restoration.
