"I can only hope and pray that this turns out the way I hope."...pray for yourself and the kids. Remember what I said about the marriage being over. Hope is basically the same thing as wanting and expecting. Give up on that...work on changing your mindset to "being open to reconciling". I know it sounds like you are giving up on the marriage and all, but trust me, It is what you will find is the right path in the end. Remember the man who looks for happiness will never find it, the man who just lives will have happiness come to him.

Don't read into the card and coupons....nothing there. Good job on giving the card to your daughter....nice touch and I am sure it is that little thing your daughter will remember for awhile.

Roadhouse is my favorite movie....I was thinking the line "Is your mother a wh@re? Well is she?" or something like that....be nice and remember that words mean nothing and actions make history.


"Be the changes you want to see in the world"