There is nothing wrong with supporting your W during this, especially if that is something you feel you need to work on anyway. Don't feel bad that you are initiating contact or anything. You are being a good spouse and ultimately that is the point. I think some times we think of these strategies and forget to watch for progress. If the strategy is not working, it says to try something else. Maybe instead of complete LRT you should work on "cheer-leading". If I remember right that is one of the strategies. Praising, praising, praising. Looking for positives and always excentuating them. It is just a thought.
It sounds like you have a nice full weekend! Enjoy it.
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