The midlifers hurt too. Maybe they don't know why, but they still hurt. They have to put 2 and 2 together and discover themselves and analyze their actions. Some may never do this. I think we all believe at one point ours will not. They get so far gone. If they do hit bottom, we have to let them. Don't step in their way, let them fall. That will be the only way they learn. They are not real deep thinkers at this point -
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
