A lot of us appear to be in the same place this month. The upcoming holidays cause this. I wonder if there is even a twitch in the Ml'ers heart regarding past memories, maybe we will never know.
The bottom line is this, it will take a long time for us to heal. You cannot rush this, we were betrayed beyond belief. If you rush this process, we will not heal correctly. I believe there are things you can do to help yourself, like get a life, etc..... but we still have to go through the process.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
