It seems that your W is making some very positive steps, IMHO. But this particular time is fragile for her as well. That is why you must discipline yourself to NOT call her when she is late. It makes you look so clingy and I'm sure your emotions are showing. It causes you to lose ground that was gained. From what you've posted, I think it sounds good. I do not think you should bring up the R talk. Continue to act "as if" everything will be okay, but it is baby-steps all along the way. If she brings up anything about the R, then just listen to her. Unless she asks you a question......just listen to what she has to say. That is important. Remember, don't expect too much too quickly.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
