Well, today I finally caved and told him my troubles...He figures H is depressed and that needs to be addressed first.
No, you told your doctor about your H. Your troubles are not being able to sleep, weight loss, etc.
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So I am wondering how I should bring up the subject. Going to have to think about the best approach as I don't want to seem like I have been talking about him behind his back.
Anything you say or suggest will be disregarded out of hand because it came from you. Doesn't matter if it's true, doesn't matter if you're the world's leading expert on the subject--if it comes out of your mouth or from you somehow your WAH will blow it off.
I understand that you're concerned about H's mental health. But at the risk of sounding like a broken record, you cannot control him, his feelings or his actions. The only thing you can control is yourself.
Stop making this about H. Focus on yourself. That's what puts you in the driver's seat of your own life.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g
