updating, ex seems to have gotten over the past few weeks coldness with son, he as been phoning, texting and picking son up all week, on dropping son off at his rugby last night he phoned me and was on the phone some considerable time, talking about nothing apart from son, how he wishes he could spend more time with him, the time he would like to spend with son he cannot due to the fact that son wont go to their house, he wishes son would put that aside and accept the situation how it is now. He was also talking about sons future and how he wants to be the one to sort him driving lessons and get him driving etc, he wants to attend the next parents day at school. all these very good positives in my eyes but then there is the down side of him wanting son to go to their house again, we have been there in the past and that is why ex and son fell out before, I only hope it doesnt have the same effect this time, son may change his mind and it is totally up to him if he does, but at this moment in time son is still very strongly not wanting anything to do with wifey or go to their house at all. I dunno, will this train ever come to a halt, over 4 years now and still stirring muck up so to speak. why doesnt ex see he caused the situation, he walked away, dumped his child, didnt speak to him for over 2 years and threw him out on the streets, now he is crying pity party cause he wants to see more of him but cannot, oh dear life goes on, xxxxx
