Tostada, I agree that you need to be working on you and GALing and all of that, but I want to caution you on dating before you are really ready to end your M.

This person that you are going to be involved with could possibly think that this is leading to something serious. And I can be almost positive that you have some baggage to deal with before you go trying to start a new relationship. You can make yourself one heck of a mess if you start seeing someone while you are hoping to salvage your M. Not to mention, she could use it against you later in court.

IMO, dating is NOT part of DBing. And having made the mistake myself, I can tell you from experience, its a mistake, dont do it!

I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...