Interesting take P17. All of us on these boards know how messed up these lying, cheating A are except for the ones in the middle of them. t did make me smile too that as soon as he tries to get a little resolve to look at both of us instead of her--it is to threatening to them. No they are not in a strong R but then again for the last 2 years my H has lived a lie fairly comfortably as well as continued in our M in an unhappy mode so he doesnt have a clue what a strong relationship is.
A part of me hopes you are right and its a good sign. Another part scares me that I want to find hope where it isnt.
