my W doesn't regret her affair

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future (FU just sounds so rude), just popping in with another 2 cts (and glad you got a laugh out of my last post).

I'm aghast at your W given her profession, but then again we're all human.

I'm really in no position to give expert advice but parts of what you wrote sounds like you're still throwing a hissy fit at W.

Why not simply:

W-

I've decided I won't subject myself to continued disrespect or my kids to unnecessary pain. I'm moving on.

Legal separation is my next step in protecting myself and my family. Please let me know how you intend to cover your half of the expense; if I don't hear from you by <Date>, I'll proceed to cover that too and just take $100 off your monthly support until it's paid off.

I'll contact the mediator and arrange a time for us all to meet to get it done.

H